So it’s over, and it was messy. It sucks, I get it. I’ve been there! Not all relationships, as good as they may have been, will end on good terms. Sometimes it just isn’t possible to remain friendly, whether it be because of the circumstances, or just your personalities. The most important thing for you to realize is that’s okay. You don’t have to be best friends with all of your exes. A bad breakup can feel like the end of your world, and believe me when I tell you: it isn’t.